about this bathroom stuff

now that some states are requiring people to use the bathroom that matches the gender on their birth certificate (or soon will be), some women (who are assigned that at birth & identify as such)  who dress in less than feminine ways are getting mixed up in this. like this case in texas which doesn't have a law about this yet. and this story about a lesbian being escorted out of a bathroom by a police officer is complicated. (that link goes to a snopes article about it.)

i'm female, what they call cisgendered, but i don't dress "feminine" at all. as i said elsewhere: picture lt. columbo as a slightly overweight woman in rumpled casual clothes. and i'm worried that if this kind of thing spreads to my state, this could happen to me.

my brother assures me that won't happen because of my rather....prominent breasts. i often have my hair in a ponytail or tucked up under my baseball cap & i usually wear some loose-fitting top that could obscure things, especially if you only just glance my way.